A Reading from Archbishop Desmond Tutu:
Ubuntu is the essence of being a person. It means that we are people through other people. We cannot be fully human alone. We are made for interdependence, we are made for family. When you have ubuntu, you embrace others. You are generous, compassionate. If the world had more ubuntu, we would not have war. We would not have this huge gap between the rich and the poor. You are rich so that you can make up what is lacking for others. You are powerful so that you can help the weak, just as a mother or father helps their children. This is God's dream. -
When my son Ethan and my daughter Amanda were young, they would trundle into my bed on Christmas morning, at their grandparents' house in Western Maine, and settle in for a good long read (longer than they actually wanted). The memory is very powerful for me, Ethan stretched out on one side of me, and Amanda stretched out on the other side of me, both looking at Babar and Father Christmas which I would hold in front of us. Babar and Father Christmas was the perfect book to provide a lengthy distraction, very important because given Ethan and Amanda's excitement on Christmas morning, they woke up far earlier than their grandparents. The book was the perfect size--big--and it has great drawings which, along with a wonderful text, can hold a child's attention (and a parent's attention) for a long time. Enjoying the drawings and text, the three of us would follow Babar, the King of the Elephants, as he leaves Celesteville on a quest to make the children of the town happy by finding Father Christmas, and convincing Father Christmas to include Celesteville on his Christmas Eve route. Babar's quest is long and arduous, made more manageable by the companionship of his faithful little dog, which reminded us of our faithful little dog. Babar must first find a particular professor in a fancy city who can tell Babar where Father Christmas lives. Then Babar, wrapped up in many layers of winter clothes, must climb a tall snow covered mountain. He first comes upon elves, who are not at all happy with the visitor, but eventually all turns out well. Babar convinces a skeptical Father Christmas that Celesteville is just the place not only to leave presents but also to stay for a bit of a tropical vacation to recover from the rigors of his Christmas Eve ride. (read more)