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Gray Colloquium Speaker Series

The C. Boyden Gray Colloquium is designed to engage St. Mark’s students in an exploration of one complex global issue annually.

Students hear from outside speakers with varying viewpoints, participate in small group discussions, write about and debate the issue, and take part in all-community events. The late C. Boyden Gray ’60, former Board president and trustee, committed a fund to sustain this program.

St. Markers, Gray believed, “should think in big terms and be inquisitive about the outside world.” Gray, a former U.S. ambassador to the European Union, White House counsel to the first President Bush, and recipient of the Presidential Citizens Medal, wished that tackling these topics in an intensive fashion would inspire students to serve their country and the world.

2026—2027 Gray Colloquium Series

The theme for this year's Gray Colloquium Series is Learning to Listen: Listening to Learn. 

Friday, September 11, 2026
Speaker: Andrew Forsthoefel

Andrew Forsthoefel is an author, interfaith minister, and Restorative Justice specialist for the Cumberland County Public Health Department in Portland, Maine. He works with schools across the country to design and implement systems for community-building, harm repair, and conflict transformation that lead to cultures of deep belonging. Author of the critically acclaimed coming-of-age memoir, Walking to Listen, Andrew currently writes for his readership on Substack, mostly about being a new dad. He lives with his wife, Tana, their son, Valor, and their dog, Rose Baby Gorgeous, in midcoast Maine. 

Wednesday, January 13, 2027
Speaker: Dr. Nicole Brittingham Furlonge

Dr. Furlonge is professor of practice and executive director of the Klingenstein Center, Teachers College Columbia University. She is also an instructor in Narrative Medicine at Columbia University Vagelos College of Physicians and Surgeons and is co-founder of LEARNS Collaborative, a catalyst for human-centered, equitable change in organizations. A first generation college student, Nicole earned her Ph.D. and B.A. in English from the University of Pennsylvania, and her M.A. from the University of Michigan. Prior to joining Teachers College, Nicole served as Director of Teaching and Learning at the Holderness School. She has taught English and served as English Department Chair and Director of Diversity at several independent schools, including St. Andrew's School (Delaware), The Lawrenceville School, and Princeton Day School. Nicole is the author of Race Sounds: The Art of Listening in African American Literature, published by the University of Iowa Press. Nicole has previously served on the boards of People and Stories/Gente y Cuentos and Village Charter School in Trenton, NJ. Currently, she serves on the board of the Tang Institute at Phillips Academy (Andover), The School at Columbia University, and International School Services (ISS). Nicole's research examines the intersections between listening, systems thinking, cognitive science, social justice, and school leadership.

Wednesday, May 5, 2027
Speaker: Dr. Michael "Mykee" Fowlin

Michael Fowlin, affectionately known as Dr. Mykee, is a psychologist, actor, poet, storyteller, and guide who skillfully blends art and scholarship to help people navigate their complex journeys. He identifies deeply with the raven as his spirit animal, embracing its role as both a messenger and protector. This connection shapes his mission to use his talents to inspire transformation and healing, guiding others toward growth and understanding.

He earned his undergraduate degree from Evangel University, where his involvement in theater and philosophy shaped his perspective. Later, he obtained a doctorate in clinical psychology from Rutgers University in 2001, blending
his artistic and academic skills into transformative presentations.

With a dynamic approach, Dr. Mykee has addressed over 2 million people worldwide. His presentations, tailored to each audience, weave humor, reflection, and emotional release into powerful narratives on themes such as mental health, suicide prevention, acceptance, and shared humanity. Beyond the stage, he leads workshops that empower individuals to turn personal pain into pearls of collective healing, championing resilience and community.

Past Gray Colloquium Speakers and Themes