Offices & Resources

Phrases for Asking

Consider these possible approaches:
  • Humor and inspiration
    • “I get to make some easy calls along with the tough ones, everyone knows you’re a softy for St. Mark’s…”
  • Join the group
    • "A number of us have decided to commit gifts in the $X range and we would like you to join us…"
  • Inspiration
    • “Your name in the Annual Report as a X level donor will encourage others to follow your lead.”
    • “I’m coming to you, on behalf of our class, because we need a core group of leaders to anchor our gift effort…”
  • Humor
    • “Our class giving goal this year is $1 million—but don’t worry, we’re only counting on your for half…”
    • “ I hope you’ll give till it hurts, then give a bit more until it starts feeling good again…”
  • Thanking the classmates into giving again
    • “Your generosity to St. Mark’s makes me enthusiastic about volunteering. Thank you for your loyal giving. I hope you’ll continue that trend…”
    • “ Your $X gift last year helped us reach our ambitious dollar and participation goals. Your leadership gift make a real impact. Thank you! This year….”

Key Points

  • The most effective approaches are the ones that come naturally to you.
  • Practice what you're going to say- confidence is inspirational.
  • When people list their reasons for giving, the number on response is “because I was asked”.
  • The important this is to ask, with conviction and enthusiasm!